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Making my mental health common knoweldge

Photo of man running a marathonI’ve always been very open about my mental health. My friends are always watching my moods fly up and down as I post status updates on Facebook. Although people may think "Why does he post so much?"

I can finally spill the beans!

Using my powers for good... at the Time to Change Village

Photo of James, a Time to Change bloggerI've been following Time to Change for just over a year and I've even done some promotional work for the cause at my workplace. I followed quite silently proud to support but unsure how to do more.

Talking about mental health makes it normal

Photo of Amy, a Time to Change bloggerI often hear of people who have mental health problems noticing the signs of depression, then going to a doctor and receiving a diagnosis. But what if it’s the other way round? I spent several of my teenage years living with depression, and believe it or not, I didn’t realise it.

Village blog from a purple haired-newbie

AJ blogs for Time to ChangeSo, I’m sat on the sofa on a Sunday morning, bleary eyed and (Time to Change) mug of hot chocolate in hand, digesting what happened the day before. Yesterday I came out to the public as 1 in 4. I didn’t know what to expect, or how I would react... never mind the reaction of those I told my story to! But let me tell you this, I was not expecting the result I got from being part of the Time To Change Village on Southbank.

“What have they got to be depressed about?”

Paul Brooks blogs for Time to ChangeI want to apologise to Robbie Williams.

This may seem an odd statement, as the Take That star and I have never met and I haven't done anything to upset him. But a few years ago I remember hearing that he was depressed, and thinking to myself: "What's he got to be depressed about? He's rich, famous, talented, successful - yep, it must really be terrible being him."

Removing the 'painted smile': talking about depression

Man jogging | Time to Change bloggerSince I can remember I have been raising my heart rate: climbing trees, jumping from walls, playing immense hours of football on car parks and fields. But the year 2011 saw my heart rate decline. It felt as though it had been extinguished all together.

Dear Mam...

Dear Mam,

There are not enough words to say how much I want to thank you for not giving up on me. Without you I wouldn’t have recovered from anorexia and instead your last memories of me would be tainted by that horrible illness which turned me into an evil, lying monster.

You never stop needing your mum

With a diagnosis of bipolar and borderline personality disorder, I have managed my mental health pretty well over the years, even if I do say so myself. I have stayed employed, volunteered for charity and even found someone to marry me! And the one person who has been there every step of the way is, of course, my mum. Supportive, often humorous and always on my side, my mum Chris is an inspiring woman in so many ways, however one instance springs to mind when I think of how much I still need her, even though I am a grown woman with a home and life of my own now.

My heart condition needed treatment to improve - so did my depression

Glen a Time to Change bloggerPeople often told me how I always seemed to have such a positive attitude even in the face of adversity. But this persona was a facade masking my true feelings and hiding the truth not just from others but myself as well. In a way I liken it to the image of a swan - calm and peaceful on the surface but underneath frantically paddling away trying to stay afloat.

Talking about health anxiety: "You're such a hypochondriac... that's all"

Martin: Time to Change bloggerThese are the words which you worry you’ll come across time after time when you are diagnosed with what is now clinically referred to as ‘Health Anxiety’. Of course everyone becomes concerned with their health at certain points in their life but, for me, health anxiety became debilitating when it combined with the onset of depression at the beginning of last year.

Climbing a mountain: my fight against discrimination

Photo of Ben NevisOh my god, am I mad? Probably, but I don't really care. I have made the decision to climb Ben Nevis next year, to raise money for MIND. My husband and son have been away fishing for the weekend, and I have just phoned him to tell him the news! Bless him, I think he's scared to leave me to my own devices for long as he never knows what I will come up with next!

‘False Memory’ by Dean Koontz, mental health and World Book Day.

www.deankoontz.comWhen asked to write about a book, author or character that has given me an insight into my own mental health I realised that there were actually two ‘sets’ of books I read that give me awareness of my  mental health issues; classics such as Great Expectations, Pride and Prejudice and Vanity Fair and psychological thriller/suspense fiction by authors like Steven King and Dean Koontz.

One of the hardest conversations I’ve had and one of the best things I’ve ever done

Photo of Time to Change bloggerI met James when I was 21. We were friends for many years before we started a relationship. I believe I had suffered undiagnosed episodes of depression since my early teens. Before meeting James I had a series of bad relationships, choosing the wrong type of guy and throwing myself into the wrong type of relationships. I had been hurt and eventually on the advice from my GP sought counseling.

Breaking the silence for Eating Disorders Awareness Week

Jolene blogs for Time to ChangeTo those who know me, this might  be news: I suffered from multiple eating disorders. As this Eating Disorders Awareness Week (EDAW) is based around "Breaking the silence" I've just broken the silence in that.

"Blowing bubles in my room": Is it Bad to feel Good?

Photo of Time to Change blogger NikkiLet’s start with a simple question: when is the last time you felt good about yourself? No, not the good feeling you get after a glass of wine, or after you’ve done a really good job of something…when is the last time you felt good about who you are? Think about it for just a moment…who are you? No, not your name, not your occupation, and especially not who you used to be…who are you?

"We should be kind while there is still time": campaigning for change

Those words by the poet Philip Larkin have resonated with me for many years. They are so simple and yet so powerful.

Step by step, day by day: living with depression in a relationship

Photo of Time to Change blogger EricMy second bout of severe depression started when I was happy with life. My girlfriend of over ten years had just moved in with me in London where I had started working two years before. I had just been awarded a teaching prize at work and I was also exercising regularly but below the surface things were not all well.

Love, honesty and bipolar: "He keeps me out of hospital, he loves me endlessly"

Photo of Julie (Time to Change blogger)The year was 2004. I had not long ago had a breakdown and had been diagnosed with Bipolar II. I was 31 and my world had been turned upside down. I had worked from the age of 9 and by this point I had gone on sick leave from a lousy job that I invested long hours in. Most of my friends and family had turned their backs on me. I hated men after having been in many unhealthy relationships.

More than words: How to approach mental illness in a relationship - together.

Time to Change blogger Shea and her partnerWhen I met my boyfriend, I had been diagnosed with bipolar for about four years, and in that four years, I had refused to date or even get close to anyone. I initially saw my bipolar as a death sentence, something that would repel everyone around me. So when I met A online, I was initially scared to get close to him.

Are we really creating awareness if we just say "yes I'm fine"?

Black and white photo of our blogger Fiona | Mental health blogsI just read a post by a good online friend (one I have been lucky enough to also meet in real life albeit over a year ago), the lovely Clive Edwards.

"To my utter amazement a letter arrived from Gordon Brown" - how speaking out can help to make a difference

Blogger Claudette Lawrence on mental health stigma and campaigningIn 2007 I was managing a women’s refuge. I was really enjoying my job and was very passionate about it. However I was having some problems with work colleagues and bullying.

Love and lithium: living with bipolar disorder

Time to Change blogger Rebecca Jewitt

Like my gender, sexuality, occupation, and the colour of my skin, Bipolar Affective Disorder doesn’t define my whole identity, but it is a significant part of it. Though therapy and medication have stabilised my day-to-day moods, my condition remains an intrinsic part of me and of how I experience the world. And I wouldn’t have it any other way – because I am me.

My top five tips on talking about mental health

Shea blogs on talking about mental healthI can still remember the silverware sitting on my plate as I fidgeted with my napkin, before turning to my three dear friends sat at the table with me. 

“I went to the doctor this week.  I have something to tell you...”  my voice croaked. 

Seeing the world differently: my experiences helped me become more caring

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My name is Sitara. I am 22 and live in the south west of England with some other girls. I love to drink tea, sing, and am currently training to be a teacher. I also have a mental illness. I suffer from anxiety, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. It’s something that I have found really hard: each day is different and each day is a challenge 

My story in Woman magazine: Speaking out about mental health

Time to Change blogger Claire SmithI have a habit of volunteering myself for things, trying something new and taking on a challenge, so when Time to Change asked for people to speak about their experiences in the press, I put myself forward without giving it much thought.

Surviving the Holidays - a Guide for the Mentally Ill (and everyone else!)

Time to Change blogger Shea WongWell, it's the holidays again, and whether you celebrate Hannukah, Solstice, Kwanzaa, Christmas, or no specific day at all, you have no doubt been affected by the season. From the endless loops of carols in the increasingly busy stores, to arguing with your partner over filling out Christmas cards, to buying presents for increasingly-difficult-to-shop-for family members (I'm looking at you, mum!), to t

A moment of kindness

Time to Change blogger Katie ElliottAlmost exactly a year ago, an extraordinary thing happened to me.

Richard Hilson’s wind of change

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Facing his fear of the open ocean to raise awareness of the Time to Change campaign.

A wind of change has breezed into my life – or should I say a hurricane. I've decided to take a short career break to take on a rather epic challenge.

Two poems about my experience of mental health

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Mental illness has affected me terribly for most of my life, and it is only recently over the last few years that I have really been able to begin to reclaim my life and start truly living again.

Over the years I have been through numerous counselling sessions, tried different medications and attempted countless self help techniques to try and overcome my struggles with the several different mental illnesses I have been affected by, including Depression, General Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social Phobia and Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD).

Why a ‘nutty’ pop star is my idea of a real man

Time to Change blogger Paul BrooksWhen I was a young boy, pop star Adam Ant was one of my heroes. My dad delights in recalling how I used to jump off our sofa, emulating the highwayman’s leap onto a horse in the video for Stand and Deliver, which I loved watching on Top of the Pops.

The Dog Days Are Over

Michael, Time to Change bloggerIn the space of a week in February 2007 my life changed forever. I was halfway through my second year of university when I started having panic attacks out of nowhere. I couldn't concentrate on anything, or go to my lectures or seminars. Eventually I had to go back home to my parents' house in London, where I have been ever since.

My roadshow experience: one step on the journey towards change

Photo of Time to Change blogger, MarieI have been meaning to write a blog about the Time To Change roadshow in Exeter for a while. Now I’ve come to do it I actually feel that the times has given me better reflections than if I’d done it earlier on.

A story of hope

Amy - Time to Change bloggerHello.

My name is Amy. I'm 22 years old. I have red hair. I have a great Family. I love films. I love cake and I have a mental illness.

Mental illness to me is just a small part of who I am. It is no longer something I fight, but something I live with and accept. Mental illness comes with a strong stigma, and people are too quick to judge people just from those two words.

When the stigma is harder than the illness itself...

Time to Change blogger LauraThe Time to change campaign is so so important as many people suffering from mental health problems feel the stigma and discrimination attached to having a mental illness is harder to cope with than the illness itself.

Keeping it in the family

Time to Change bloger NinaThe first form of mental health related stigma I experienced was from my own parents.  

When I was first diagnosed with depression, my parents encouraged me to keep it a secret and made it clear they did not want other friends or family members to find out. This made me feel alone and ashamed of how I felt. 

Harrow: 'A beacon of hope'

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Sue with the Mayor of HarrowI’ve been left with an overwhelming feeling, actually a glow, of admiration and inspiration having been in Harrow last week at the launch of our joint pilot campaign to reach the South Asian community.

After more than a year and a half of hard work from so many local people, the event was buzzing with an overwhelming amount of offers of support and encouragement.

"Twitter has helped me #befrank"

Macdog73 is a supporter of Time to Change who has recently been part of the #befrank movement on Twitter, which, prompted by the Time to Change campaign, has seen hundreds of people open up about their mental health problems.  She talks about how Twitter can be a helpful place to share experiences and find support.

'Bedlam' at Shakespeare's Globe - a Time to Change Champion's view

Time to Change Champion Kate Wilkinson reviews Shakespeare's Globe's production of 'Bedlam' and reflects on how attitudes and treatments have changed...

Are the times a-changing?

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In the last few days we have been part of a media debate about Shirlena, the X Factor contestant who has been pulled from the show because she has a mental health problem.

The international anti-stigma family

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While Time to Change works within England, stigma and discrimination affect people with mental health problems worldwide - and we think of ourselves as being part of an international family of anti-stigma programmes. Over the last few years we have been proud to support campaigns in other countries as they get off the ground by sharing our learning - and in the last few weeks, we have welcomed two new additions to the family!

Being hit below the belt and then people taking the mickey out of you.

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That's how Frank Bruno talked about how some people's reactions to his mental health problems hurt, in the TV and radio studios today.

Ian's story

Out There is one of Time to Change's project in Cumbria, and helps to promote mental wellbeing by using the unique outdoor environment of the Lake District for a range of activities. Ian has been involved with the project first as a service user, and now as a staff member.

"Before I came across Time to Change, I was depressed and living on benefits. I didn't have much enthusiasm for life and had become isolated.

Pat's Story

Pat struggled with Agoraphobia and addiction for many years, but with the support of her family and GP managed to overcome her issues. Now she writes poetry about her experiences to give hope to others in a similar position - to send out the message that it is possible to recover as she has.

You can read her poems on this page - and she has also written a brief introduction to her work below, talking about what inspired her to write each piece.

My Wade in the Water.

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Several hours have past, since my latest satisfying swim at my local pool. The result of that 30 minute immersion is my current state of emotional tranquility, clarity of thought and last but not least, aching limbs.

Yvonne's story

Yvonne had a full social life and lots of friends. But then she started having difficulties - mood swings and confusion. She was diagnosed with schizo-affective disorder.

A few good friends stuck by her side but many others disappeared, and that was very hard to deal with. "One time I saw a friend in the street and she wouldn't even look at me, she crossed the street. That was hurtful." Yvonne says "I'm well now, doing a job I love and I'm happy. My friends who stood by me - I don't know what I would have done without them."

Ruby Wax on depression and mental health stigma

Ruby Wax has experienced episodes of depression for most of her life, but it wasn't until she finally checked into a clinic, that she realised how widespread mental problems are: "It's so common, it could be anyone. The trouble is, nobody wants to talk about it. And that makes everything worse."

James' story

As a teenager I'd always relied on being a fast runner to get me out of trouble but on an eventful day in 1985 I wasn't playing British Bulldog at Pilton school, this time I was running for my life.

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